QI love my wife. We’ve been married ten years. Young punk-rock love turned into adult debt-ridden love. She’s been there for me, helps me achieve my goals, all that. But she’s let herself go, while I’ve gotten myself into better shape.
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When almost any girl you see is hotter to you than your wife… what the fuck do you do? When the desire to be with someone who actually turns you on is overwhelming… what the fuck do you do? When people you find attractive, women and men, hit on you all the time… what the fuck do you do? —Hawt and Royally Depressed
ABefore you give up or drive yourself crazy over this situation, HARD, you need to talk to your wife. It’s simple: tell her that you no longer find her attractive. It’s called being honest.
QMy boyfriend and I are both in our 20s, we’re GGG, and we’ve experimented enough to know what we both like. There’s only one thing that I’d like to try that he can’t help me with: I’d like to be with a girl. He feels that if I get to be with a girl, then he should get to be with her, or another woman. I feel that any experience I have with a woman wouldn’t threaten him, as I have no interest in having a relationship with a woman. I’d be fine if he wanted to be with another man. But he has no interest in being with a guy. I know what you’re going to write: shut up and have a threesome! We’ve talked about that, but it would be too hard for me to watch him with another girl.
AIt’s amazing how quickly “confusion and disgust” at a proposed position/kink/sibling combo platter morphs into “comprehension and desire” when someone with come-fuck-me eyes/tits/ass cheeks does the propositioning. Bill O’Reilly wants to rub falafel on your tits? You’re not interested. Milo Ventimiglia wants to rub falafel on your tits? You’re in the kitchen mashing up chickpeas in your underwear.
