Too many people believe that a vanilla type and a kinkster can never live happily ever after. Others are convinced that anonymous Internet hookups always end in tears and positive HPV test results. Where do people get these false impressions? Reading columns like mine. Contented couples–twosomes who have successfully incorporated one partner’s kinks, Internet hookups that stay hooked–don’t need my advice. To counter the false impression created by my column, I invited contented kinksters and happily partnered sluts to send in their happy-ending stories.
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About a year later we started fooling around with other guys (my idea), mostly bis who gave us equal attention. It’s the hottest thing ever. I was young when we got together, so I’m enjoying playing around a bit, and it turns out that my boyfriend has a bit of a cuckold fetish. This has brought us closer and helped us let go of all inhibition during “normal” sex.
I am marrying the amazing bi guy with a cuckold fetish, and I couldn’t be happier. –In Love With a Kinky Motherfucker
I used to be incredibly embarrassed by my foot fetish. But the four wonderful guys I’ve dated during my relatively short 28 years on earth have gone out of their way to reassure me that it turns them on to see me turned on. Now I make no apologies, and I do what I can to turn on my boyfriends and hookups. Sex is so much better now that I’ve relinquished shame. –Kinky in Minneapolis
I met my boyfriend on manhunt.net. We corresponded for a month before meeting because we were both out of town. I was so anxious that somebody else was going to get that hot piece of ass before me. When we met the first time we hooked up that same afternoon. Now we share a home–I cook, he cleans–and he’s introduced me to his family. Not to mention that I get to pound his hole every day. Despite how we met, he’s the best partner I’ve ever had: understanding, loyal, and too cute for words. –Texas Fraggot