I’m 18 years old and my girlfriend and I have been engaging in sexual acts. She has no problem coming, but when it comes to sexual intercourse she can’t orgasm. Is my penis not doing the job correctly? She says she feels good but can’t climax. Could there be something wrong with her? I don’t know what to do. –The Lost Boy
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So, TLB, it could be that the positions you’re fucking in don’t provide direct stimulation to your girlfriend’s clit, or she’s one of those women–one of the majority–who require direct, intense stimulation in order to come. Which means, TLB, that if you both want her to come during vaginal intercourse, then you’ll have to incorporate a little manual stimulation into your fucking routine. Which brings us back to . . . Play with her clit while you fuck her. Her clit, TLB, her clit. While you fuck her, play with her motherfucking clit.
I have a bit of an issue with a fantasy. I’m turned on by the idea of a woman dying during climax. This would seem to be one of those fantasies that is impossible to fulfill, consensually or otherwise, as I cannot go around killing women. The police would find it odd. I’m at a loss. Any ideas? –Impossible Fetish
I was wondering what constitutes virginity and whether you would consider me a virgin. The most I have done is let two people perform oral sex on me, but I have never myself engaged in a sexual act. Does this make me a virgin? I would like to think so. I believe that “sex” involves penetration (anal or vaginal) or actively performing oral sex. –Boy in Florida
Savage Love readers? I’m punting this one to you. What constitutes virginity? When do we lose it? Do we have more than one to lose?
