I was recently seeing an alpha-male type–Ivy League grad, big executive, loud laugh, etc. He found me on a Web site, one thing led to another, and he wound up showing me pictures of him in his ex-girlfriend’s panties.
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By threatening to create a YouTube slide show using the pics Alpha Male already sent you, LMFP, or by threatening to e-mail the pics to everybody@hisplaceofemployment.com. Not that you should do these things, LMFP, but his willingness to mess with your head–all those twat-teasing e-mails, all those flirty coffee meetings, all those dates for play that he broke–gives you carte blanche to mess with his head.
Finally, LMFP, alpha males in lacy panties don’t do anything for me personally–seriously!–but your letter aroused my professional curiosity. Panty thieves tend to be dweeby in the extreme, the kind of men who can only collect women’s panties by stealing them. I’d like to lay eyes on the pics of a panty collector alluring enough to seduce multiple women–yes, I guarantee you’re not the first–into parting with their favorite panties and bras. I promise not to post them on YouTube.
Hurting people is always wrong, Dan. Your advice to LAFFS seems to show that you agree: you told 17-year-old LAFFS not to fuck his father’s new wife because of the problems it would create should his father find out. But then you advised SLINORLA, a married man, to do what he knows would upset his wife–masturbating while his lesbian avatar has sex with female avatars in Second Life–which would potentially create problems in his marriage should his wife find out. Explain. –Where’s the Consistency?
For more back-and-forth with readers about my advice for SLINORLA–a man who is, one reader points out, doubtless having “lesbian sex” in Second Life with other middle-aged married men pretending to be lesbians–go to thestranger.com/savage/secondlife.
