QI am obsessed with my girlfriend sitting on my face, so I can eat her out while my nose penetrates her. It drives her crazy as well. I am wondering if you have heard of a dildo that could be mounted on my face, specifically on my nose, so that I penetrate her more deeply while she sits on my face and I lick her clit? Basically, I want her to be able to really ride my face while I lick her clit. —Strange Fantasy Dude
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Finding something that fits comfortably over your nose is going to be your biggest problem. “It would need to be hollow,” explains Silverberg, “but it would need enough heft such that it wouldn’t be constantly buckling and hitting you in the mouth or between the eyes. The tricky thing is that the nose is so close to the eyes, so anything with straps might dig in or at least go over the eyes in an uncomfortable way.”
So what do you do?
I know I’m the only person who can answer the question of whether I want to have sex right now. But do I need to have sex right now? Because one day I’m going to fall in love, and it’s going to get sexual. The message I hear from a lot of people I respect is that I’m going to pay a price for waiting until then to get laid. Am I? Am I probably going to be OK? —Virgin at Thirty
Whenever his wife goes away, I go over to the house to spend time with him. I’ve been planting evidence of our affair around the house in the hopes his wife will find it. So far, no luck. I’d like him to be man enough to leave her, but that’s probably never going to happen. I could leave him, but if I do, I want to make sure he’s miserable. I’m not going to vanish from his life and leave him all happily ever after. I’m thinking of going and telling his wife. What do you think? Is there any way I can force him to tell her? —Now the Other Mom
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