Q I’m a 41-year-old, very attractive, happily married woman. My husband and I have been together for 15 years. When we first met, the sex was absolutely incredible. After we got married, the sex was good, not great. This was because we were busy raising our children. (My husband had custody of four-year-old twins, children from his first marriage, when we married.) The reason I know our sex life suffered while we were busy raising the kids is that after the girls went off to college, things went right back to absolutely incredible.

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PS: Here’s my e-mail address in case any of your gorgeous, male, college-age readers in the Pacific northwest are interested . . .

A I don’t print the e-mail addresses of readers looking for hookups, MRSB, as I am a professional advice columnist, thankyouverymuch, not a yenta/pimp for wannabe Mrs. Robinsons. (It also gives my lawyer fits. “What if you print this woman’s e-mail address and this woman meets a nice young man who turns out to be Ted Bundy?” says my lawyer, who’s old enough to remember who Ted Bundy was—and Mrs. Robinson—but somehow not too old to lawyer.)

PS: Oh, what the hell: MRSB’s e-mail address is j.e.robinson71@gmail.com. Have at her, Benjamins.

Q I‘m writing to ask you to help me spread the word about an issue close to my heart. I’m a 23-year-old woman without medical insurance who relies on Planned Parenthood. They have done so much for me. They have provided me with birth control, annual Pap smears that I can actually afford, and emotional support that helped me get over an abusive relationship and sexual assault.

Confidential to Madison, Wisconsin: I’ve never been prouder of my connection to Madison , where I went to college, than I am right now—and, hey, don’t let those lying bastards at Fox News get you down. To everyone else: meet the people who are taking a stand at youtube.com/wethepeoplewisconsin.