Q I’m a 27-year-old divorced woman. I married the first man I ever had sex with, and we had a very vanilla sex life. He refused to try any play with dominant/submissive roles. My fantasies have always involved submission, and my favorite porn features women being submissive.
A Keep talking to your boyfriend, leotard, and you’ll be just fine.
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A I measured out three tablespoons of half-and-half, GSP, and you couldn’t drown a kitten in it, much less a GGG sex partner. An adult should be able to knock that back without much trouble.
Look, EPL, if J. and C. are falling apart, step back and be patient. That way you won’t be held responsible by the rest of the Renaissance Club once you and J. resume your pet/mistress/mommy/daughter/whatever routine.
I’m stuck: part of me thinks I can’t be happy sexually having never had a sexually adventurous phase, and part of me fears that I’m giving up a loving relationship for what others tell me isn’t a big deal anyway. —Stuck
