QI am a 23-year-old straight male. My ex-girlfriend and I started dating in high school, when we were both 17, and continued dating until I broke up with her the summer after our freshman year in college because things felt too serious. We continued to have sex, but I blocked out all my feelings for her, while she was open about still wanting to be with me. She started dating someone else sophomore year. I realized then that I still wanted to be with her, and I broke down emotionally and made both our lives difficult while she was dating this new guy. I was a very unattractive person then.
But whatever her deal is, the bottom line is this: when two people aren’t good to each other, when they’re not good for each other, they should get the fuck away from each other.
QIf you have two friends, one male and one female, who are both married (not to each other) and looking for an affair, is it OK to put them in touch with each other? May I bring them together in the same way I would two single people—throw a party with lots of alcohol? The man is in a sexless marriage and wants to get laid. The woman is getting divorced and needs to get laid. Note: the man and I have sex every few months. It’s awesome sex, and he has a gorgeous body. I would like to offer this to my female friend, who could use it, but I’m not sure how he would feel about being passed around. What should I do? —Is This How Ashley Madison Got Started?
